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Feminine Fashions and Being TS [message #87192] Tue, 26 January 2010 17:11 Go to next message
Miri  UNITED STATES
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One of the biggest struggles for many trans-girls is selecting fashionable clothes that are feminine and flatter our figures. The disadvantage we have been dealt by nature and the poisoning of testostorone can make finding anything but androgynous clothes for us, often difficult. Younger transitioners, who have not yet deveoped a definitive male build and facial bone structure, and even some over weight transitioners, can avoid this issue, but for some of us, it can be a real problem.

The male build tends to be much wider at the shoulders and back, and much narrower at the hips, with little to no fat deposited, creating a sort of martini glass shape.

The natal female figure tends to be smaller at the shoulders and back, and wider in the hips and rear end, with larger deposits of fat tissue, creating more of an hour glass shape.

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Consequently, for many of us, who fall into that category, wearing a dress, is out of the realm of possibility without adding heavily padded knickers and alterations. If we can't find a way around our frame issues, the choices we wear, can out us to the world.

So my questions to you are:
What ways have you found to over come this issue and yet be able to wear stylish clothes out, or have you?
Have you found certain brand names of clothes or style combinations that you can wear, that flatter your figure, making it more feminine, or do you tend to dress more andro, to avoid it?
What advise/tips can you offer to those, who desire to dress stylishly feminine, without the risk of being read in public?

Mirren








[Updated on: Tue, 26 January 2010 17:18]

Re: Feminine Fashions and Being TS [message #90538 is a reply to message #87192 ] Mon, 15 February 2010 20:22 Go to previous messageGo to next message
Stephenie  is currently offline Stephenie  UNITED STATES
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I pretty much dress out of the LL Bean catalog, with dashes of Eddie Bauer, Land's End, and Orvis thrown in. Big sweaters and shirts to hang down and cover my non-existant butt. In the summer when I can wear far less, I do. My favorite summer outfit is a long, swingy, full skirt and a cami with a built in bra, sandals, and some jewelry. I can throw on a pretty shawl if the weather turns cool at night. See my last pic in the picture thread.

For dress up I try to shop Coldwater Creek, and a local dress shop where they know me and I trust the SAs judgement. I own a few dresses, but I rarely wear them, preferring the ease of separate tops and skirts.

At work, I have no choice. I have to wear scrubs. I wear solid color tops, with white pants, stockings, and shoes. The tops I chose have a little belt under the bust with buttons in the back making them a bit more feminine looking.

Stephie

[Updated on: Mon, 15 February 2010 20:30]

Re: Feminine Fashions and Being TS [message #90581 is a reply to message #87192 ] Tue, 16 February 2010 07:08 Go to previous messageGo to next message
Royalmalcontent  is currently offline Royalmalcontent  UNITED STATES
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Hmm. That chart is very helpful. Nod Have any that compare facial structure?

PS. As a natal Fem, I have become quite inept at dressing and style. I feel like I've been playing dress-up my whooooole life so I've gotten pretty good. I also went to beauty school. If you're having trouble or need advise feel free to ask me too. While I obviously can't tell you much about MtF dressing I can help with general fashion/makeup ect... Basically, I can help you not to stand out in the crowd. Ask anything anytime, I'm here for you.

One mistake I commonly see among MtF is wearing those baggy suit-dresses. No matter how ruffly, flowery, or pink it is, it's still damn ugly and immediately draws attention to you. Note: If your mother/grandmother would wear it to church then do not wear it.
Re: Feminine Fashions and Being TS [message #90612 is a reply to message #90581 ] Tue, 16 February 2010 14:51 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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Royalmalcontent wrote on Tue, 16 February 2010 08:08
Hmm. That chart is very helpful. Nod Have any that compare facial structure?

PS. As a natal Fem, I have become quite inept at dressing and style. I feel like I've been playing dress-up my whooooole life so I've gotten pretty good. I also went to beauty school. If you're having trouble or need advise feel free to ask me too. While I obviously can't tell you much about MtF dressing I can help with general fashion/makeup ect... Basically, I can help you not to stand out in the crowd. Ask anything anytime, I'm here for you.

One mistake I commonly see among MtF is wearing those baggy suit-dresses. No matter how ruffly, flowery, or pink it is, it's still damn ugly and immediately draws attention to you. Note: If your mother/grandmother would wear it to church then do not wear it.


I have seen some of the same clothing mistakes! Dreadful!

Here is a face comparison link Smile :


http://forum.beginninglifeforums.com/index.php/t/5430/1bcbf9 c6da64f3458a54416af0720293/
Re: Feminine Fashions and Being TS [message #110557 is a reply to message #90581 ] Fri, 20 August 2010 14:09 Go to previous message
pumpkin  is currently offline pumpkin  UNITED STATES
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Royalmalcontent wrote on Tue, 16 February 2010 10:08
Hmm. That chart is very helpful. Nod Have any that compare facial structure?

PS. As a natal Fem, I have become quite inept at dressing and style. I feel like I've been playing dress-up my whooooole life so I've gotten pretty good. I also went to beauty school. If you're having trouble or need advise feel free to ask me too. While I obviously can't tell you much about MtF dressing I can help with general fashion/makeup ect... Basically, I can help you not to stand out in the crowd. Ask anything anytime, I'm here for you.

One mistake I commonly see among MtF is wearing those baggy suit-dresses. No matter how ruffly, flowery, or pink it is, it's still damn ugly and immediately draws attention to you. Note: If your mother/grandmother would wear it to church then do not wear it.


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